Happy New Year 2009 and May Year 2009 bring you health and wealth.
It seems to be common for a person to review what he or she has done in the past 12 months whenever another year arrived, I never do that in the past year but this year is slightly different for me as what Confucius said 三十而立, therefore I should take this opportunity to have a good look down the memory lane.
三十而立, is a very famous proverb by Confucius. All man please takes note.
Before a person turn 30 and going into the age of 31, this is the end of an important chapter of life. Why?
Before a person reaches 30 years old, this is the time he will accumulate life experience and education to help him on his next chapter of life.
When we were born, the first lesson that we learn will always be from the family, like we learn how to stand, walk run, speaks and other basic skill of life.
Probably when you are 3 years old, you might be sent to a nursery.
When you are about 4 you will be transfer to the kindergarten.
When you are seven, you go for you primary education and graduate at 12 years old
When you turn 13 years old, you go for your high school education until 17 or 18 years old depending on the education route that you might take or decided by your parents. All these consider formal education in modern days on top of other type of formal/informal education that you might take.
Well after high school, you might opt for further study, doing part time study or you might join the "University of Society" where another division of life begins.
This is the time where you are really facing the "community at large" or a new world that you are going to encounter.
After yours higher education, getting yourself a job is the next move, as a newcomer, you might have your No.1 choice, but sometime it is not so easy for the dream comes true.
You might not start with your "dream work" and you might just grab whatever available. It could be a bumpy year for you as you are trying to find the "dream combination" of life.
This period after your higher education, might really be the time that you are realizing your dream.
Finding an ideal job, finding your love one, getting your dream car, getting your dream house and probably the latest development is how to have windfall gain on the share market.
You try and try for the years, you gain, you lost, you might succeed and you might fail.
All these are education and life experience that might brings you greater future. You however might not know that you did gain despite the result or outcome. What you really gain is the experience despite good or bad. When a year past you will not get it back but definitely you have one extra year of experience in your kitty. That is for sure.
Therefore when you come to the age of 30, it is then the year you have accumulated quite a bit chunk of experiences and you shall now have a cut off to view on your memory lane. You should then consolidate it and have a better plan for the next 10 years to come. This according to Confucius is important as the next 10 years to come will you your next critical chapter of life and there should be a careful plan in life after accumulating experiences in the past 30 years.
Personally I believed what Confucius said is right, as after so many years of education and working life, it is worth taking a review. In the past 30 years, I have complete my basic and higher education up to the master degree, got all the recognition that I should have (fellowship and membership), having challenging working life and tough life experience. It is true that the "kitty of experience" have been accumulated and still accumulating. Looking down the memory lane I will find thing that I have done right and thing that I have done wrong; I will find joy and sorrow; I have find thing that I have regretted and thing that I have done extremely right. I have, I have be proud of myself and be shameful on myself. Let focus as the next chapter of life will begin soon, let the new challenges take on you and you take it with pride and honor.
Well for those who have yet to reach the age of 30, go ahead do what you dream of and don't forget to have a good look at your memory lane when you turn 30. For those who have past the 而立之年 (30 year's old) you might want to have a quick look in the past and adjust on whatever you wanted to.
For my brothers out there with me, come let have a good shot on it and enjoy the next 10 years. I am still having a deep thought about it………………………………………………………………
Happy New Year 2009